We don’t believe in a rule book.
READY TO DATE ON YOUR TERMS?
Who are we?
We’re a dating wellness and coaching community bringing life back to dating. Yes, we said dating wellness. It’s a thing! A healthy dating life starts with you. We don’t believe in a rule book. We help you date on your terms (not the internet’s). A place for open conversations about dating, relationships, and love to help you build a dating life that attracts honest, lasting connections.
Our founder, your dating coach, and author of The City of Dating, A Memoir. Stevie is on a mission to rewrite the dating narrative and encourage daters, like you, to build a dating life that leads to exploration and true connection.
Meet Stevie
How can we help you?
Self-advocacy and communication are our secret ingredients.
Our approach is designed to help you heal triggers, explore your needs, develop intentional tools, and mindfully take action to build authentic relationships that align with you. Tailored towards the early stages of dating and developing relationships, our coaching services provide a safe space for daters to build dating confidence and create dating tools that lead to the relationships they desire.
What is dating coaching?
Dating coaching is a personalized space to realign with your needs, wants, and intuition, break dead-end dating patterns, and develop intentional self-advocacy and communication tools. It’s an opportunity to discover your unique path to the healthy relationship you deserve. Sans all the external noise!
Create Your Dating Toolkit
A 4-week 1:1 program with Stevie to create a personalized dating strategy that has proven to reduce dating burnout and help you gain clarity and direction. Build communication skills, prioritize where to put your dating efforts, and get purpose-driven dates with better-aligned matches.
Includes a dating app profile reboot and IRL dating strategy!
Dive Deeper!
An 8-week 1:1 program with Stevie that reboots your dating life! Take time to truly understand who and what you’re looking for, overcome negative dating patterns, and finally create a dating life that leads to the person you’ve been looking for. From casual dating to long-term, from low confidence to high, you’ll be dating with actions that help you find your better alignment!
Includes a dating app profile reboot and IRL dating strategy!
PLUS! Communication skills that help you build healthy relationships (beyond dating!)
“I wanted to be in a relationship, but needed to do more work on myself and also gain clarity into the type of relationship that I was looking for. That's where Stevie came in. During our session, Stevie guided me without pushing me and allowed me to focus on my needs without getting sidetracked. This focus gave me a great sense of purpose and control over my own dating narrative and truly opened me up to allow me to not only be in a relationship, but a thriving relationship.”
— Rayna, 28
“I had some early skepticism about coaching but I am so glad I took a chance. Stevie has been incredible, quick to meet you where you are and help you get to where you want to go. Unlike other coaches, Stevie both is an adept listener and helps get you on the path you want to go on, not the one-size-fits-all path.”
— W, 29
“While I've been an active go-getter in every other aspect of my life, I stayed extremely passive when it came to relationships. This approach doesn't work well for dating, especially in a city like New York. Through the coaching sessions, I realized that it's not only OK to be proactive and express my feelings, but that I can and should be selective and make intentional decisions about whom I want to see and date. My conversations with Stevie gave me greater confidence and made me reflect on my broader life goals, too.”
— T, 32
“One big “aha” moment was realizing how important it is to stay anchored in my values even when fear or scarcity around connection creeps in. That shift helped me see my patterns more clearly and respond to dating situations with more clarity.”
— MC, 32
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