Date on your terms.
READY FOR THE DATING LIFE YOU DESERVE?
The fact you are reading this is worthy of applause. You deserve to enjoy your dating life, no matter where you’re at in your journey! Rather, you want to build your dating confidence, create new dating intentions, reevaluate a situationship, discover new dating/relationship tools, or get out of dead-end dating patterns. We will start the journey in healing, exploring, and mindfully building an enjoyable dating life for YOU.
Do you ever wonder?
How can I attract new connections and fun dating/relationship experiences by being myself? Is it possible without dating apps?
I feel behind in finding love. Why can’t I have what my friends and family have?
I’m happy for my friends in serious relationships, but I don’t know if I want that right now. Is it okay to want different relationships than them?
I keep dating the same person and getting into unfulfilling situationships. How do I get out of this pattern?
I’m scared of losing my independence, but I’m ready for a committed relationship. Can I still be independent and find a partner?
We’re here for you <3
How you will grow
UNDERSTAND your current dating intentions, goals, and needs.
IDENTIFY and OVERCOME negative dating patterns.
Manage current and PREVENT future unfulfilling situationships.
GROW dating confidence and INCREASE self-awareness.
Become an ADVOCATE for your needs and worth.
ATTRACT and NAVIGATE new relationships with confidence.
How 1:1 coaching works
Healing
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You already hold the key to an enjoyable dating life. All the answers live in your past dating experiences, relationships, and your time alone. Solitude (not loneliness) is where reflection begins, lessons are learned, and confidence is found. Dating isn't just about finding one soulmate. We date to find ourselves. The program dives into who you are and what makes you, YOU. It is knowing yourself that attracts the right connections and experiences. Through reflection, you will heal from negative energies that hold you back and turn them into lessons to create healthier relationships.
Explore
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Dating is a time for us to discover ourselves and what we envision for our lives. For the period we are single, we can explore life without the pressures or the opinions of a partner. We live through our lens. Dating is a dominant source of learning about different cultures, backgrounds, relationships, and life paths. By going on dates and opening ourselves to new connections, we can attract new opportunities that may introduce us to an unexpected, fulfilling path. This program will encourage you to step outside of your comfort zone and harness the power of being single.
Develop
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Through healing and exploring, you will develop a foundation of tools and intentions to use in your dating life. Our dating goals can ebb and flow as we grow and expand our perspectives. The program helps you understand your current and future goals. You will increase your self-awareness and trust in your intuition.
Do you know the saying trust your gut? Well, it actually works. You'll develop confidence in knowing what you want and deserve. Most importantly, believe in your ability to advocate for your dating narrative.
Mindful Action
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This is YOUR moment! You’ve done the work. Now it’s time to set your dating narrative into action. Whether you choose to date during the duration of the program or wait until the end, you are actively making an enjoyable dating life a reality. You’ll date with more confidence, navigate new relationships, set forth healthy dating patterns, and attract new connections that are meant for you! Every step you take in living your true dating narrative will foster deeper and more meaningful experiences and potential partnerships. The truest version of YOU is waiting!
Start 1:1 Dating Coaching
8-Week Starter Pack
What’s Included:
8x 45 Minute Coaching Sessions
Pre & Post Session Reflection Questions
Access to Exclusive Tools and Worksheets
Check-ins with Stevie!
Flexible Payment Options
To begin, a Connection Call IS required—must be open to growth, feedback, and change.
Please remember, 1:1 Coaching Sessions are about YOUR dating journey. Coaching is not direct advice for how you should act or say. Instead, sessions encourage you to find the confidence and solutions that already live within you. Because it is about YOU, I don’t diagnose or guess why another person acts a certain way. We’re focusing on your growth. Together, we will develop healthier dating practices and tools to help you make choices that are best for you, and grow in confidence.
Meet your
Dating Coach
FAQs
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Sessions are your safe space to work through dating/relationship challenges or situations, while simultaneously working towards a goal of mindful and confident dating. Each session begins with talking about your dating wins and/or your reflection homework completed before the session. From there, we work through a current challenge or situation with perspective and mindfulness work. We create a personal goal and a realistic action plan for you to begin taking steps to work through the challenge that aligns with you. Throughout our sessions, you will develop new tools and shifting perspectives that help you develop stronger communication and advocacy skills. You will find clarity on your intentions and values leading to relationships that align with who you are and where you want to be!
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I am an ICF (International Coaching Federation) Trained and Certified Coach through the Academy of Creative Coaching. My training included over 70 hours of coaching training and mentorship. I have over four years of experience in the dating industry, after founding my dating wellness platform, The City of Dating, (named after my memoir) in 2021. Since then, I have been writing a dating advice column, and speaking on my dating expertise and knowledge across multiple outlets, including podcasts, sex and relationship publications, events, and more. I’m continuing my studies and certifications through additional hours, studies, and volunteer work.
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I calculate my success rate with how my clients feel and take action after a program or session with me. There is no guarantee that you will find your partner after a certain amount of time after or during our work together. However, I guarantee sessions will guide you to make decisions that align with your unique path to the relationships you desire. Client success is an accumulation of actions taken in their dating life and relationships that align with them. For example, initiating meeting someone in person, starting vulnerable conversations, successfully sharing their intentions or feelings, advocating for their wants, and being the driver of their dating/relationship goals.
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Coaching is about taking action! It is not direct advice for how you should act or say. Instead, the sessions encourage you to find the confidence and solutions that already live within you. You hold all the answers to the challenges you face (though it may not feel like it now). Coaching helps you find the solution and develop an action plan to make your goals a reality. Coaching will help you develop healthier dating practices and tools to help you overcome dating challenges, make choices that are best for you, and grow in confidence.
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Change starts with you! My clients are motivated and open-minded to developing new dating tools and perspectives that lead them to the relationships they desire. They are ready to put the time and effort into improving their communication and advocacy skills. Coaching is all about growth. I ask my clients to be open to feedback and challenged thinking. Clients are not only ready to find the right relationship and partner, they are ready to grow as an individual.
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My sessions are primarily online via Zoom. However, I offer occasional in-person sessions when requested. I love meeting my clients in person and working with each individual to create a space that works best for them. If you’re interested in my in-person sessions, please let me know at stevie@thecityofdating.com or via my forms.
Unsure if this is right for you? Talk to Stevie anyway! Fill out the form and book a 1:1 Connection Call.